St augustine

“The father may say to his son, ‘I begot you’ and the mother may say, ‘I bore you’; the father may say, ‘I reared you’ and the mother, ‘I sustained you’.  But you must say to your parents, ‘I love you in Christ, not instead of Him. You are with me in Christ, but I will not be with you apart from Him.’ But if the parents say, ‘We do not care about Christ,’ the choice is clear: you must say to your parents, ‘I care about Christ more than I care about you. How can I obey the ones who reared me and lose the one who created me?'”